RULES OF COURTSHIP 

1.The relationship is strictly headed for marriage.

2. Both parents( male's and female's ) and spiritual father / mentor must know.

3. No private meetings - meetings are to be on public areas to avoid temptations of touching, kissing and all other sexual immoralities. (sex included)

4. If the partner fails to meet up to these, simply part ways regardless of your feelings for him/her.
He/She is not the one God has chose for you. And it's obvious that they are after lust(sex) not love.

5.This is the only time you are allowed to divorce/turn away your partner because God doesn't allow divorce in marriage at all. Romans 7:1-3

HOW TO RECOGNISE THE VOICE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT

It is simple as that little voice you hear when you about to fall asleep, the voice that remind you, "you haven't prayed today" or He may say, "you haven't read the word today". That's the spirit speaking, tugging at your soul.
                               John 7:38 "he that believeth on me, as the scripture hath said, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water" (KJV). 

 (1 CORINTHIANS 6:18-20)

The Holy Spirit hates adultery and fornication. why? it is because your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit. You are His dwelling place. Adultery separates God from His temple. It keeps Gods outside His throne in your heart. Some people erroneously think they can fornicate without affecting the presence of the Holy Spirit in them. No way! How can you expect the Holy Spirit, whose personality is defined by holiness to dwell in the body yield with filthiness? "James 4:4".

Fornication strips the glory of God away form you and clothes you in rags and shame. There is nothing glorious about sexual sin. It never adds anything to you, it always takes away your prized possessions. Repent and Flee fornication daily! whatever separates God from you is something to resist by all means! Confess and repent of any form of conspiracy of sexual sins you are involved in. Break away from every form of relationship that facilitates these.

• First step is confession:

 Begin by acknowledging who God is, for instance, Abraham called him, "the Lord, God Most High,  the possession of heaven and earth." Genesis 14:22. Begin by declaring the power of the Almighty. 1Kings 18:36.

• Second step is supplication:

Let your request be made known to the Lord. Unfortunately this is the step on which people stand far too much time. their entire prayer life seems to be concentrated on needs, wants and desires. Of  course your personal problems are worthy of God's attention, but when you have shared them, it's not time to say "Amen".

• Third step is adoration:

It should be time for absolute beauty and worship. Loving Him, Adoring Him. It may begin with the words " Jesus I love you". Suddenly you feel the presence of the Holy Spirit, and two hours later you look at your watch and say, " I can't believe the time has gone so fast". It's so real, so alive.

• Fourth step is intimacy:

It is almost too loving, too sacred, too beautiful to describe. for instance there have been times when deep in prayers, I felt as if someone was standing there.

• Fifth step is intercession:

Jesus said the Spirit will reveal things to us. When you invite the Spirit to help you pray, He does not focus on your selfish needs and wants the focus is outward. He has placed the names and faces of people before us that we had not thought of in years.

• Sixth step in prayer is thanksgiving:

 As Paul wrote, "(1corinthians 15:57)". I always spend time giving thanks to the Father, to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit.

• Finally, the seventh step in prayer is praise:

It is the purest form of prayer where you sing, speak in a spirit language, and sometimes form the depts. of your being burst forth into total praise.